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10-26-2009, 11:33 AM
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As of Saturday, after 8 years the DW and I have split. Now I don't know if I will be able to keep the 5er or not. She does not want it, nor does she have the truck to pull it. Where I go from here is unknown at this time. My disability does not pay much and don't know if I will be able to afford it with what I get, of course she left me the payment book.
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10-26-2009, 11:35 AM
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that sucks.. I would think that she is 1/2 responsible for the payments if you were married.
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10-26-2009, 11:48 AM
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Bummer - so sorry to hear of your troubles. Try to settle everything in a ammicable manner and visit a lawyer with her for advice on proceedings. Friends of ours kept it VERY civil, shared the costs of a lawyer who just reviewed everything before the court date and it went VERY smoothly.
Again, sorry for your troubles.
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10-26-2009, 11:54 AM
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Well I kinda threw her out!! To keep it short, she was sleeping in the wrong bed. It won't be ammicable!
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10-26-2009, 12:00 PM
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Sorry George. Well get yourself a lawyer anyways. You will need it then.
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10-26-2009, 01:11 PM
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Think of it this way, she is a modern woman, you can not work any more think Alimony for you.. After all what is good for the Goose is good for the Gander. See a lawyer
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10-26-2009, 01:27 PM
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sorry to here it. i hope things work out for you.
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10-27-2009, 09:03 AM
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George, I'm truley sorry to hear about your problems. I've been in the very position you find yourself in today, and the only thing I can say is a qualified, "things will come around."
I was lucky though, I found a good woman, married her, and am more financially successful, and emotionally securethan I ever was before. Starting over sucks, but its the only way to a new life.
God bless, good luck.
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10-27-2009, 11:14 AM
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Sorry to hear this George. After reading this I immediately thought of the song 32:20, originally written by Robert Johnson ( )
Get thee to a good attourney, and harken to his/her advice.
Edited by: papa2
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11-06-2009, 04:37 AM
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Originally Posted by GeorgeG
As of Saturday, after 8 years the DW and I have split. Now I don't know if I will be able to keep the 5er or not. She does not want it, nor does she have the truck to pull it. Where I go from here is unknown at this time. My disability does not pay much and don't know if I will be able to afford it with what I get, of course she left me the payment book.
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You may consider selling your home or giving up your apartment and living in the 5er. Or selling the 5er and buying something smaller and cheaper; perhaps used.
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11-06-2009, 11:54 PM
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George,
Been there and it isn't pretty, as I started over with just a suitcase of clothes.
however, as Louie said, it can be a blessing in disguiise, as I am in the same boat as he was.
Best of luck to you.
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